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Best Christian dating sites: Faith-based compatibility for Christians

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Looking for love isn't easy: we all have different criteria for what we want in a partner, and what values must be shared. For many, there can be no compromise and certain beliefs, such as faith, must be shared. 

Many dating sites exist to cater to this need: if you sign up for any Christian dating site, you're most likely a person of Christian faith looking for another Christian with whom to share your life with. These are the best Christian dating sites if you're looking for just that. 

1. eharmony

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eharmony

Has a thorough questionnaire to find a fellow Christian

Thorough sign-up process
You can't view photos or message users without a subscription

eharmony may not be considered a Christian faith-based dating site, but its thoroughness in helping you establish who you are and what you're looking for helps Christians find other Christians relatively quickly. And due to its popularity and number of users, there may be a bigger pool of Christians from which you can find your match. 

When you sign up for eHarmony, you'll be able to state your religious beliefs and refine your matches based on your beliefs. Christians report the most success in finding a partner through eHarmony. 

eHarmony, along with Match.com, also boasts the most marriages than any other dating site. For many Christians, marriage may be the goal of dating - joining a marriage-oriented dating site may prove to help them work toward that goal. 

2. Match.com

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Match.com

Good for Christians serious in finding a life partner

Match.com hosts group events so users can meet up in person
Can't message other users without a membership

Along with eHarmony, Match.com markets itself as a place where people take online dating seriously and have signed up to find a life partner (although it is also designed for casual daters). There's a very thorough questionnaire asking questions about yourself and even the range of emotions you've felt in the past couple of weeks. 

And just like on eHarmony, you can state your religious beliefs and refine your matches based on your desired faith in a partner – this is particularly helpful for people who are looking to meet a partner with similar, if not identical, views on faith and religion. 

3. Christian Mingle

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Christian Mingle

Best Christianity-focused dating site

Exclusively for Christians
Any profile changes must be approved and approval can take a few days
Many consider the site too expensive

Christian Mingle is one of the best-known sites to find a God-centered relationship with another Christian, but it doesn't mean it's for everyone: matches may live miles away and the monthly cost (about $50) may be considered too expensive for some. 

Although the site is for Christians seeking other Christians, there is no real way for profiles to be vetted: anyone can pose as a Christian and create a profile that follows the site's strict rules. 

Christian Mingle provides several types of quizzes and tests to help you determine what you're looking for and even who you are, as a Christian. These test results are confidential, but will help refine your matches. 

Despite the site and the service's flaws, if you're a Christian in search of a fellow Christian, you'd be remiss not to try out Christian Mingle. 

4. ChristianCafe.com

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ChristianCafe.com

A Christian-owned dating site

A Christian-owned site
Group conversations possible
Perhaps not the biggest pool of potential matches

ChristianCafe.com is a Christian-owned dating website, so users know that facilitating Christ-centered marriages is the focus of the service. ChristianCafe.com claims to have resulted in over 25,000 marriages, and has been matching up Christians since 1999. 

Among many of its features, the site offers forums in which users can discuss their faith and eventually connect with another special someone. 

The site is used and loved by not only young Christians, but also seniors who share a belief in Christ. Anyone who wants to find a Christian partner, whether divorced, widowed, or single, is welcome on the site. 

ChristianCafe allows users to refine their search based on denomination, level of Christian faith, level of church involvement, and other criteria – a huge plus for those to whom faith is important, but not necessarily the most important contributing factor to a meaningful connection. 

5. ChristianCrush

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ChristianCrush

For those serious about faith as part of their relationsip

Great for those serious about their faith
Lots of supporting content to help users find God in their relationships
May not be for all Christians

ChristianCrush may be one of the most Christianity-focused dating sites out there: no only does the service match you up with compatible believers of Christ, but it also provides supporting content to help its users live lives that "honor God," as per one of their tenets. It's easy to join and easy to use, despite the site's old-school interface. 

The site also offers content around couples' Bible study, porn addiction, and bringing faith into a relationship to the fullest. Many Christian online daters may find this supporting content helpful, especially when trying to navigate dating total strangers for the first time. 

Unfortunately, for younger users who prefer dating on-the-go, there is no mobile app. And unfortunately for older users who may not be as tech-savvy, there is no profile verification process (users don't even have to upload a photo to create their profile). 

6. Mutual

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Mutual

The dating app for LDS Church members

For LDS Church members specifically
Free version is limited, and monthly payment for premium features may be considered to be expensive

Mutual is a free dating app for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. You set up a profile, and then the app works similarly to Tinder. If two people express an interest in each other while swiping through user profiles, they're matched and able to start chatting. 

There's even a "double take" feature where you can get a second chance to swipe right on a profile if you accidentally skip it while scrolling. Facebook is required in order for you to use the app. This is to help eliminate the presence of fake profiles or bots. 

Because Mutual is specifically for LDS followers, this site may be the best chance for LDS members to meet each other outside of church-organized events. It is becoming increasingly popular within the community and has led to marriages between LDS members.