Best Online Dating Sites of 2018

Anna Burleson ·
Entertainment Writer
Updated
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We spent five days trying out 10 different online dating services to figure out which one is the most effective and affordable. After monitoring three fake profiles for 24 hours, collecting match data and using the features of every website and app, our reviewers decided OkCupid is the best overall service. It gives you free access to other users’ profile photos and messaging, and you can pay for a membership to access extra features. The free app is also easy to use, and our tests resulted in the most matches of any site we tested.      

Best Overall
OKCupid
With a ton of potential matches and free messaging services, OkCupid is the best overall online matchmaking service.
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Best Budget
Plenty of Fish
Plenty of Fish is an in-depth matchmaking service that gives you free access to all the features you need to find great dates.
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Best App
Coffee Meets Bagel
Coffee Meets Bagel gives you free access to the most important features of a dating site without overwhelming you with too many profiles or messages.
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Product
Price
Overall Rating
Value
Profile & Matching
Testing Data
Free Access to Photos
Free Messaging
Platform (App, Desktop)
App Ease of Use
Profile Photos
Match Preferences
Match Guarantee
Setup Time (Minutes)
Avg. Number of Matches (in 24 hours)
Avg. Site-Recommended Gold Star Matches
Avg. User-Initiated Super Matches
Avg. Number of Messages (in 24 hours)
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Both
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6
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15
81
51%
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8.4 10 6.3 8.8
Both
D
8
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20
40
22%
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10
$15.99 Match
8.1 7.5 10 6.5
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Both
B
26
5
11
88%
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14
$0.00 Viglink
7.8 5 9.5 10
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Both
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24
25
17
76%
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0
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7.3 10 5.3 6
App
A-
6
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10
3
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3
$14.95 eharmony
6.9 5 8.5 7.8
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Both
C-
12
20
23
36%
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7
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6.3 10 5.3 1.8
Both
A+
6
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3
9
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7%
6
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5.7 10 3.8 1.5
App
A+
9
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3
6
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5%
0
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5.6 7.5 7 0.8
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Both
A-
6
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3
2
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5
$26.65 Chemistry
5.4 7.5 5.3 2.3
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Desktop
N/A
30
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10
5
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2
Best Overall
OkCupid is a well-designed and fun matchmaking service. The most important features, messaging and viewing other profiles, are free and the site is LGBTQ-inclusive.
Our findings are in line with 2016 Consumer Reports data that found users were most satisfied with OkCupid over numerous other dating services. With free dating apps becoming more popular thanks to Tinder, people are gravitating toward predominately free online dating services. Setting up your profile is fun because of the unique questions you’re asked, like what your ideal date would entail and whether you’d prefer to be weird or normal. You also answer these questions from the perspective of your ideal mate to ensure you are paired with compatible people. Along with up to six photos, you can also add more information to your profile about your lifestyle. In our tests, OkCupid gave us the most matches. On top of that, about half of them were an 80 percent match or higher, meaning they are much more likely to be a compatible match. To eliminate the likelihood of being bombarded with too many messages, you can only see messages from users you’ve “liked,” which we thought was a clever feature. The free mobile app is also well designed and easy to use.
Pros
  • It’s very LGBTQ-friendly.
  • The profile setup questions it asks you are unique and require some soul searching.
  • Users can access their profiles online or through an app.
Cons
  • A subscription is required to access some of the site’s features.
  • There is no match guarantee.
  • The in-depth setup process took 15 minutes, which might be too lengthy for some people.
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Best Budget
Plenty of Fish is a free and easy way to try online dating. Its setup process is thorough and the free mobile app is comparable to several others on the market.
Setting up your profile involves a rather in-depth chemistry assessment of more than 70 questions. This means you'll have to think a little bit about your own personality, how others perceive you and what you want in a mate. Questions include whether you consider yourself productive and whether you're seen as stubborn. You answer on a scale, which is nice because it means your answers can be more nuanced than yes or no. There are several other questionnaires available to continue to flesh out your profile, but they're not required. Messaging and viewing user profiles is all free on Plenty of Fish. While our reviewers don't think the website is very well designed, the free mobile app is also an option that's super easy to use. The one downside to any service with free messaging is that you could feel overwhelmed if you find yourself with a flooded inbox. On average, the three fake accounts we set up for testing got 40 matches in 24 hours, the second highest of any service we tested. Of those, 22 percent were "top prospects," which is the site's way of saying those users are highly compatible with you.
Pros
  • Users have free access to profile photos and messaging.
  • There are several compatibility surveys to flesh out your profile and improve the quality of your matches.
  • It’s available online and through a smartphone app.
Cons
  • The website’s design is busy and not very intuitive.
  • It would be very time-consuming to complete every survey.
  • Free and unlimited messaging could be overwhelming for some, particularly women.
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Best App
Coffee Meets Bagel limits the number of profiles you can view at one time, forcing you to consider the profiles you do see more carefully. It’s also marketed as a ladies choice app, which means women must initiate contact with a match first.
Setting up your profile is fast and only requires a few quick facts about yourself and your appearance. After you write six phrases about yourself and three phrases about what you like in a date, you can start using Coffee Meets Bagel. There is no desktop version of this dating service, though, so you have to have a smartphone, Facebook account and cell phone number to use it. A Facebook account is required because, according to the website, matches are more successful when two people have mutual friends. The app accesses your list of friends to do this but won’t post anything to your page, so there’s no need to worry. This dating app uses “beans” as currency. You can earn beans by logging in often, by purchasing them or by completing certain tasks like using the app’s Photo Lab. You then use beans to unlock special features in the app and to “like” other user profiles. The service gives male users 21 curated matches every day that they can either like or pass on. The women, in turn, get to see which men have liked them and decide whether to like them back. If they do, the matched pair can then chat for free. In our tests, the maximum number of profiles we could like before running out of beans was five a day, which we would think keeps most people from being flippant about their matches. In our tests, our accounts got an average of three matches, which was rather low compared to other services we tried. The messaging feature also has a seven-day time limit for conversation between two people, which kind of forces you to decide whether you want to take action on that potential love connection.
Pros
  • The fact that it limits your daily matches makes you consider profiles more carefully.
  • Names are private until you and another user both like each other.
  • Setup asks you what you like in a mate.
Cons
  • There is no web version.
  • You can’t “like” an unlimited number of users in one sitting.
  • It is advertised as a women’s choice app, which might be unappealing to some men.
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Best for Planned Outings
If you’re nervous about trying online dating, start out with Match.com.
To avoid the awkwardness of a one-on-one with a stranger, Match.com hosts group hangouts so you can get to know a lot of singles without any pressure. The Bucket List Event Series even pairs you up based on things you’d like to do before you die so you can make new and exciting memories to further foster a relationship. The website and app are both easy to use and because your matches appear with a compatibility number, you’re more likely to have something in common. Adding something unique to your profile like your favorite MLB team is also a fun add-on a lot of other dating websites lack.
Pros
  • Free access to photos.
  • There is an app and a desktop version.
Cons
  • You pay extra for messaging.
  • We only received 11 matches in our tests.
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Most Comprehensive Matchmaking
Elite Singles isn’t free, but it’s so thorough it’s worth the cost if you end up finding the perfect mate.
When setting up your profile you’re asked not only about your basic likes and dislikes, but how important those likes and dislikes are to your partner. Both you and any potential matches fill out information about things like morality, whether you're reliable, if you're often overwhelmed, messy or like going on adventures. You also include information about your appearance and can upload up to 24 photos to your profile, which is the second-highest number of photos of the websites we tested. In our tests it took a total of 25 minutes to set up a profile, so you know both yourself and anyone you might go on a date with has been thoroughly vetted.
Pros
  • Thorough profile building and matching.
  • You get to see your own personality profile.
Cons
  • It’s expensive.
  • Difficult to block and report users.
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Why Trust Us

At Top Ten Reviews, we’ve been reviewing online dating services since 2004, watching them evolve and change with the times. We looked at today’s most popular dating websites and apps and rated their matching tools, costs, ease of use, messaging features and other features. We also spoke to several insightful people, including dating experts and typical users, to get a clear view of the modern dating landscape. 
Julie Spira, a Los Angeles-based author, online dating expert and CEO of Cyber Dating Experts, said honesty is the key to online dating success. This is becoming easier and easier with social media.

“These days because people are connecting their Instagram accounts to their mobile dating app we have an opportunity to see what someone looks like in real life and whether those photos match the profile,” she said.

With more than 20 years of experience in the field of online dating, Spira said mobile dating apps like Tinder and Bumble have made online dating a generational occurrence.

“It’s not unusual for someone to say their little sister or child is on a dating site and their mother or grandmother are on dating sites,” she said.

Even though dating apps can seem commonplace, 26-year-old Abby Einrem met her fiancé David on Plenty of Fish in 2015 but doesn’t like telling people that because online dating seems “desperate.”

“Plenty of Fish was gross because all the guys on there weren’t attractive,” she said. “I feel like attractive guys use Tinder because it’s easy. It links to your Facebook. Plenty of Fish requires more effort and if you’re going through that much effort it’s because you’re desperate.”

But according to a fact sheet provided by the public relations team at Match.com, the internet was the No. 1 place where singles met their last first date in 2017, bucking any assumption that most people are just looking for hookups online. Only 14 percent of singles met their mate through friends, and 6 percent met them at a bar.
Sharon Kroll and fiancé Lee Wallender are the Seattle-based writers and dating experts behind The Dating Gurus. Kroll said it’s easy to get lost in the sea of possibilities when online dating so it’s important to limit the number of sites you’re on to three and make sure you’re not spending all day checking them. It’s also important to make the first message you send count.

“Whether you’re a guy or a girl you have to actually read the person’s profile or little blurb and do your homework,” she said. “Search for clues about the person’s occupation or interests and be prepared in the first contact to initiate a conversation about those specifics.”

If you have some time to kill, we here at Top Ten Reviews have dozens and dozens of stories about going on bad dates. We’ve been ditched, dumped, ghosted and duped so we’re pretty familiar with the pain of dating. Online dating can alleviate a little of that pain because it gives everyone the chance to be upfront about their intentions and preferences.

How We Tested

In a world where everybody and their mother seems to be on free dating apps like Tinder, we especially looked for services that have both desktop and mobile platforms. We also prefer ones that cater to a wide audience and give users the most features for free.

We created three made-up online dating profiles and spent five days trying out each service and monitoring the responses our fake profiles received. We created a woman seeking a man, a man seeking a woman and a woman seeking a woman to make sure our data was well-rounded. All three profiles were similarly generic: They were white with bachelor’s degrees with low to midrange full-time jobs. To create these accounts we had to make fake email accounts and, for some sites, fake Facebook accounts and phone numbers as well.

For our fake dating profiles, we counted how many matches and messages we received in 24 hours. We also noted whether you could block or report inappropriate behavior, how long the profile setup process was, how in-depth setup questions were, and whether we encountered any obvious bots (fake profiles like ours). For sites that require you to “like” users to get matches, we did so to the first 30 accounts we came across.

And don’t worry; on sites that let us send and receive messages for free, we made sure to tell anyone who reached out that the accounts were created for the purpose of a review and would soon be deleted.

How Much Do Dating Websites & Apps Cost?

Even free dating websites and apps give you the option to sign up for a premium option, which does in fact cost you. Premium options cost about $10 each month for basic service, or if you want more effective pairing with people you’re more likely to get along with for an average of $40 per month. You could also pay less if you purchase a membership for several months at a time.

Hinge

Since our last round of testing, the dating app Hinge has gained lots of popularity. Founded in 2012, it's similar to Tinder but emphasizes matching you with people you share Facebook friends with. Once you’re out of Facebook connections, you start seeing potential matches you have fewer friends in common with. You're able to see each user's job, educational background, physical traits and a short biography. Scroll through users and select the ones you'd like to get to know better. If that user likes you back, you're connected via the app's messaging platform.

Matches are location-based so you only see people near the city you set in your profile. If you travel and want to see if there are any matches in your area, you need to change where you are in your profile. The app also has a "We Met" section where you can leave feedback after any Hinge date. It's almost like leaving a Yelp review for a person. Users can also specify whether they have kids, want kids, have any strong religious beliefs or vices. This gives you a little more of an in-depth look at a potential mate than some dating apps. Hinge is only available as an app and it's free, but you can pay for a membership if you want extra perks like being able to use additional filters, see likes you've received and access Hinge experts to help you along the way.

Politics in Dating

Specialized dating websites are sometimes extremely specific. DonaldDaters made headlines recently as a place for politically like-minded individuals who support President Donald Trump to connect. The app’s tagline says it’s a place to “meet the RIGHT partner.” It has a 2.5-star rating in the Apple App Store, with many users saying the app crashes frequently and is riddled with bugs and misspelled words. Even reviewers who gave the app three or four stars noted there are many bugs.

TechCrunch reported the app had about 1,600 users as of early October 2018. We know the exact number of users due to a database leak the day of its launch. The app's CEO Emily Moreno released a statement saying the user data was exposed due to an issue with the third-party chat feature and "swift and decisive" action has been taken to fix the mistake. She said emails, phone numbers and credit card information were never accessible to outside parties. A one-month premium subscription costs $29.99, while six-month subscriptions are $77.94 and year-long subscriptions are $119.88. You can purchase a la carte credits once you’ve signed up as well.

Your Profile Picture

One of the most nerve wracking parts of online dating (aside from literally the entire experience) is selecting which photos you'll use on your profile. They say a picture is worth a thousand words, so it's a pretty important part of making a good first impression. Do you go with something that shows your adventurous side? Should you include a snapshot of your dog? Which photo will show the world you're a fun, interesting person?

Zoosk recommends showing your natural smile, citing a 2015 study that found people are drawn to a genuine show of pearly whites. That same study found people prefer a photo if the subject is tilting their head slightly, and if you're a woman seeking a man, make sure to incorporate the color red somewhere in your photo. If you really can't decide which photo to choose, don't be afraid to ask for a little outside help. A 2017 study found people tend to pick out less favorable photos of themselves when compared to letting others choose, so go ahead and ask your friends to help you!

What You’re Looking For

It’s important to be upfront about what you’re looking for online. If you’re interested in something casual, free sites that require less information to sign up could work perfectly. It’s probably not worth paying for a membership if you’re not looking for anything long term and are willing to risk going on a couple of potentially bad dates. If marriage is what you’re after, then you might have better luck on paid sites that pair you with people who have the same priorities.


Cost
A lot of dating websites and apps advertise the fact that they’re free, but be careful what you’re signing up for. Setting up a profile is always free, but most of the websites we tested offered only some of their matching services free of charge. Many dating websites make you pay to view user photos and send messages.  Apps, on the other hand, are predominantly free. Upgrades are available if you want to use the app’s extra features, but for the most part a free account is all you need.

Safety
Online dating can be scary because it’s hard to be sure if the person you’ve matched with is really the person they say they are. Thankfully, many online services provide tips for staying safe in the online dating world, like meeting in a public place and not giving out too much personal information. Some websites also offer verification to put your mind at ease by connecting other social media accounts, like Twitter and Facebook, to a person’s online dating account. That way you can at least be assured that person has some other online presence. No matter what, use common sense and try to avoid putting yourself in vulnerable situations both online and when planning an in-person meetup.

Specialized Websites
We tested online dating websites and apps aimed at broad audiences, but there are many options for tailored dating experiences. If you’re looking for something specific in a mate, odds are there's a dating website or app just for that. For example, the Color Dating app allows users to focus on a specific ethnicity. Christian Mingle caters to singles of the Christian faith. Silver Singles is a paid service for people entering their golden years who are looking for a relationship. There are also websites for people with certain medical needs. SpectrumSingles.com is geared toward people on the autism spectrum, while Dating4Disabled is an option for people with disabilities. There are also options for people living alcohol-free lives, like Single and Sober. It's similar to OKCupid, but its users don't drink. In short, there are plenty of online dating options, no matter what you’re looking for in life.

Happn
Have you ever crossed paths with a stranger and felt an immediate connection? Have you always regretted not introducing yourself to that cute guy in the elevator or that really funny waitress? Happn is a dating app that gives you a second chance with missed connections. Every time you cross paths with another person who has the app on their phone, you'll be able to view their dating profile. You can also see how many times you've crossed paths with a person and if you don't want to match with them, you can simply remove that profile from your timeline. If you've found someone you'd like to get to know more you can like them with the app's heart button, and if the feeling is mutual, you'll be able to message back and forth.

The app is free and there is no desktop version. You can purchase credits separately in the app or pay monthly for the premium version, which lacks any ads and lets you see who has liked you, among other features. It has 4.2 out of 5 stars in the Apple app store, and some user reviews note the app can be very confusing in busy urban areas, like New York City. We're guessing it's also not very effective in less populated rural areas, as it relies on a lot of people having the app on their phone. You can also play the app's built-in game CrushTime, which lets you guess who has liked you from four profiles you've recently crossed paths with.

Start the Conversation

One of the most daunting parts of online dating can be simply starting the conversation with someone you’ve matched with. Should you keep it simple? Is it OK to show some personality or tell a joke? Zoosk recommends starting off by saying hello but adding a little something extra. For example, instead of just "hi," you could say something like "Fancy meeting you here!" You could also try incorporating a gif or emoji into your message. In fact, Engadget reported GIF messages on Tinder are 30 percent more likely to receive a response compared to those without them. Zoosk also recommends asking a question early on in the conversation to keep things moving. Take a look the user's profile and ask something about one of their interests or hobbies. If you're drawing a blank, try some of the following topics out:

  • Dogs, cats and pets
  • Travel
  • Biggest accomplishments
  • Weird hidden talents
  • Favorite TV and streaming shows
  • Hometowns
  • Family
  • First jobs
  • Your bucket list
  • Career aspirations

If you get stuck, there are also comprehensive lists of conversation starters available online to use in person or via a dating app or website. The most important thing to remember is to be yourself and if someone isn’t receptive, don’t worry about it! Respect their decision and move on. You might not have found your special someone but there’s always next time!